Well, i am five weeks pregnant and have decided to get an abortion, i need to knoe the cheapest way?
btw, im young and can not raise a baby, dont give me any lectures or whatever about it because iwas on birth control but its not 100% affective. please help me out, my boyfriend says im bein selfish by getting rid of the baby, but ithink its best for me and tha baby.
January 21st, 2011 at 1:29 am
you are being selfish!
January 21st, 2011 at 2:25 am
Look, I’m pro choice, so I support whatever you want – but saying its best for the baby is a little silly.
January 21st, 2011 at 3:10 am
Try adoption, rather than abortion.. thats just my opinion though.
January 21st, 2011 at 3:37 am
The cheapest way is by not doing it. Adoption. He’s right, your selfish.
January 21st, 2011 at 3:46 am
You might be killing the future president/ person to invent hover cars.
I want a hover car.
January 21st, 2011 at 3:52 am
Looking for th chepest why Is going to cost u a fortune Later,: emotionally
Dont do it!!! I went thru the same feelings like u and after 10 long years i regret it every siiiingle day since then.. Now its like what ever no lecture dont want to hear it ect, but trust me on this one…
God puts us lessons and if we accept it we get in return..
dont u think its a coincidnce u were taking care and u still came out pregnant…..
January 21st, 2011 at 4:47 am
Your doctor may have a referral source for you.
January 21st, 2011 at 4:53 am
What best for the baby would be giving it a healthy start to life and growing the hell up to do your best to provide as ithis baby’s mother. Don’t try to ease your way out this choice by saying something so silly as aborting the baby is whats best for it.
The cheapest way is going to the doctor and paying the bill. I don’t know what else your expecting to hear: doing something as stupid as drugs/alcohol could just make you give birth to a baby with a birth defect, and trying to harm the fetus physically will just hurt your body in the end causing a huge emergency
January 21st, 2011 at 5:28 am
I’d say adoption over abortion. It’s not best for the baby because the baby isn’t even getting a chance. There are plenty of people out there that cannot have a child and would die for one.
Besides, you have to put into consideration of serious mental and physical health repercussions…so when you are ready for a child, you may just ruin your chances of ever having one and end up being that very person that would die for one.
And the mental toll it takes on you is wayyyyy more powerful than you will ever know until it’s too late. Seriously think about this decision a bit longer. You’re still in a very early stage of pregnancy, so you have up to 10-15 weeks to think more. The longer you wait though, the more chances of having health problems later on is greater, so think and decide wisely.
As an update: If you ARE seriously considering this, then you really need to read these sites so you know what you’re truly getting into first. DO NOT DISREGARD THIS EITHER. You posted for help/advice obviously, so you’re getting it.
http://www.pregnantpause.org/safe/so_you.htm
This site discusses all of the complications that may arise from an abortion, including to young women like yourself.
http://www.healthguidance.org/entry/13568/1/What-Really-Happens-During-an-Abortion.html
This site explicitly describes the abortion procedure to the detail.
January 21st, 2011 at 5:55 am
If you are actually a genuine poster, then here you go: a medical abortion is usually cheaper than a surgical one, but you will have whatever type of abortion the professionals at the clinic feel is best for your situation. Your boyfriend can say whatever he wants, but he isn’t the one that has to go through the pregnancy, so his vote doesn’t count. If you want to have an abortion, then you should have one and don’t let anyone make you feel bad about it.
http://www.imnotsorry.net
January 21st, 2011 at 6:54 am
Okay I am pro-choice and I wont judge you if you do get an abortion. I do think it is kind of stupid to say that you arent being a little bit selfish, and I REALLY think that it is stupid to say that this is what is best for the baby. You think the best thing for your child is death? That is the best you think your child deserves? Thats harsh…
Have you even considered adoption…there are things called open adoptions. where you can actually be a part of the baby’s life a little and know how it is doing and stuff. I think that you should consider that before you just say that you are going to abort it. Could you live with that your whole life?
Is your boyfriend supportive of you keeping it?
January 21st, 2011 at 7:18 am
some of us are trying so hard for a baby when we can actually take care of it.
then we have children having sex that end up pregnant then kill their baby?
just doesnt seem right….
keep the baby. give it up for adoption.
you made the choice to have sex.
January 21st, 2011 at 7:47 am
if i were you, i wouldn’t get an abortion and if anything give it up for adoption. if your boyfriend thinks you’re being selfish for getting an abortion, then i’m sorry to say he’ll probably never let it go and might want to break up with you for it. if your boyfriend isn’t going to leave, since it seems like he wouldn’t since he said it was selfish of you, then i would just go through with it. i was thinking about getting an abortion when i relized i was pregnant, but once i actually looked into it and saw what they did, i couldn’t bring myself to it. hopefully i swayed your choice, which i highly doubt i did but it was worth a try.
and to the first thing you said, just because you’re young doesn’t mean you can’t raise a baby, many teenagers have gotten pregnant and have done just fine. it’s good that you were on some type of birth control, but like you said it’s not 100% effective and you should have known that and used protection.
January 21st, 2011 at 8:24 am
Killing ur baby is NOT the best thing that u can do 4 ur baby. If u think that u are 2 young 2 have a baby then maybe u should consider that u are 2 young 2 be having sex as well since u cant deal with the consequences. U are being selfish by killing it and not considering adoption. Abortion is not cheap so if ur gonna get 1 then ur gonna need 2 pay up. It wold have been alot cheaper if u had just invested in condoms… :/
January 21st, 2011 at 9:12 am
Selfish is just the beginning of what you are.
Get a back alley abortion.
Those are loads of fun.
January 21st, 2011 at 9:50 am
in the pregnancy section? REALLY?
What’s best for your baby? REALLY?
Your bf sounds like he has a brain…
but I think this is a troll thing…
Don’t you have something better to do then post bs on here on a friday night?
Thats just sad…I am off to theater and drinks later tonight…to bad you don’t have a life.
January 21st, 2011 at 10:01 am
Nobody asked anyone else’s opinion on YOUR decision. All them 2 cents others are giving, they can keep. Find your local abortion clinic and call them. They may have a program based on how much you make that can pay half. You are 5 weeks. There is a pill that u can take that is good for up till 8 weeks…
January 21st, 2011 at 10:52 am
Here is the cheapest way……next time go to your local drug store and buy a box or two of condoms!!
January 21st, 2011 at 11:22 am
Saw your question and had to share with you. I have always been self-conscious about my weight. Then I got pregnant. While I was excited about the baby, I was a little panicked about getting fat. When I asked my doctor about weight gain and proper nutrition for me and my baby, I got good answers. They just weren’t very clear and not exactly what I was looking for. A friend of mine recommend Pregnancy Without Pounds. Wow I am glad I did! Now I have an adorable baby boy and my body is almost back to normal. Loved their approach to diet and exercise. Doesn’t hurt to take a look. Maybe it’ll help you, too.
Good Luck