How do I get my boyfriend back to life?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. The last two years he hasn’t had a job and doesn’t seem to be looking for one. He sits on the computer and takes naps all day then when I get home from work he seems to have no interest in me. I can”t remember the last time he kissed me or even hugged me without me asking first. How do I try and get him out of this funk without nagging?
September 22nd, 2010 at 12:22 am
Tell him that he should do some volunteering while he’s working on trying to land a job. Sometimes by volunteering at places, if they like you and want to keep you, they may open up a position for you…..you never know….
September 22nd, 2010 at 12:58 am
honestly, tell him you’re leaving him in a month if he doesn’t have a job. then don’t nag or threaten him but make sure he knows you’re serious
September 22nd, 2010 at 1:28 am
Maybe start making dinner together or going out to parks for a walk. What if you just go and kiss him or hug him. I had the same pblm with my bf and I basically started “jumping” on him and soon he started coming to me for kisses and making sure that i felt loved. Try making things intresting and I know sometimes you just want to curl up and cry because your feelings are hurt but remember you have to be strong to win..